REBROADCAST

In this essential encore episode, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter delve deep into understanding high conflict borderline personalities, often called the "Love You Hate You" types. They explore the complex world of these challenging relationships, where charm can rapidly transform into rage. The discussion illuminates the defining characteristics of high conflict borderline personalities, including their emotional regulation struggles and tendency toward all-or-nothing thinking. Bill and Megan examine the prevalence of borderline personality disorder, the overlap with high conflict personalities, and offer practical strategies for managing these challenging dynamics while maintaining hope for recovery.

Additional Resources

Expert Publications

• Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with BPD/NPD
• Calming Upset People with EAR
• Dating Radar
• High Conflict People in Legal Disputes

Professional Development

• Strategies for Helping Clients with Borderline Personalities in Divorce
• Conflict Influencer™ Class

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• Visit High Conflict Institute: highconflictinstitute.com 
• Submit questions for Bill and Megan
• Browse our complete collection of books and resources in our online store
• Find these show notes and all past episode notes on our website

Important Notice

Our discussions focus on behavioral patterns rather than diagnoses. For specific legal or therapeutic guidance, please consult qualified professionals in your area.

• (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault
• (00:37) - 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life Part 3
• (01:10) - Borderline Personality
• (07:39) - What does the term mean?
• (08:50) - Looking for Connection
• (10:42) - Statistics
• (14:03) - High Sensitivity
• (16:26) - Splitting
• (18:22) - Lying
• (22:01) - Apologizing
• (24:47) - Why Vindictive?
• (27:44) - Finding Success
• (31:50) - Empathy
• (34:06) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: Domestic Violence