41. The boundaries conversation needs to change.

41. The boundaries conversation needs to change.

Released Wednesday, 21st May 2025
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41. The boundaries conversation needs to change.

41. The boundaries conversation needs to change.

41. The boundaries conversation needs to change.

41. The boundaries conversation needs to change.

Wednesday, 21st May 2025
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Most standard boundary advice FAILS because it ignores your nervous system. 

The truth is, boundary work is not just about 'communication skills' or 'willpower' – it's about healing your nervous system so that it can safely support your authentic yes and no.

In this episode:

  • Why 'just say no' DOESN'T WORK (because your nervous system drives your boundaries not your willpower)
  • How your unique boundary style (rigid or loose) is a direct reflection of your nervous system state and attachment wounds
  • The specific nervous system response that drives people-pleasing behaviour
  • My personal experience with loose or non-existent boundaries and why I view autoimmunity as the ultimate teacher when it comes to boundary work
  • Somatic practices and tools to begin connecting with your physical and energetic boundaries and learning to sense what a 'yes' and 'no' feels like in your body

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