Episode Overview

In this enlightening episode, Dr. Barry Jacobs shares his journey from clinical psychologist to widely-read AARP columnist and best-selling author. Dr. Jacobs discusses how he began collaborating with AARP and the path that led him to write a monthly column addressing the needs and struggles of caregivers across the country.

Together with his wife and co-author, Dr. Julie Mayer, Dr. Jacobs recently released The AARP Caregiver Answer Book, a comprehensive new resource designed to support and empower those caring for loved ones.

Key Topics Covered

• Origins of the Collaboration:
  How Dr. Jacobs connected with AARP and became a regular contributor.

• Inside The AARP Caregiver Answer Book:
  An overview of the practical guidance included in the book, including:

  • Self care strategies and why this chapter is the most extensive—caregivers need to care for themselves first to effectively care for others.

  • Advance care planning tools and conversations.

  • Managing finances and navigating financial stress.

  • Addressing sibling issues and family dynamics.

  • The process of handling grief and loss.

• Addressing the Unspoken:
  Dr. Jacobs highlights key topics that are often underrepresented in caregiving literature:

  • Feelings of anger, resentment, and emotional exhaustion.

  • Relationship challenges between caregivers and care receivers.

  • Practical advice for tackling tough conversations and setting boundaries.

Resources Mentioned

• The AARP Caregiver Answer Book by Dr. Barry Jacobs & Dr. Julie Mayer

• Dr. Barry Jacobs’ monthly AARP column (check the AARP site for recent articles)

Who Should Listen?

• Family caregivers and those supporting loved ones

• Healthcare professionals advising families

• Anyone interested in the emotional and practical realities of caregiving

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