What If Orgasm Wasn't The Goal and You Didn't Need to Perform For Pleasure?

What If Orgasm Wasn't The Goal and You Didn't Need to Perform For Pleasure?

Released Wednesday, 6th August 2025
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What If Orgasm Wasn't The Goal and You Didn't Need to Perform For Pleasure?

What If Orgasm Wasn't The Goal and You Didn't Need to Perform For Pleasure?

What If Orgasm Wasn't The Goal and You Didn't Need to Perform For Pleasure?

What If Orgasm Wasn't The Goal and You Didn't Need to Perform For Pleasure?

Wednesday, 6th August 2025
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We explore the transformative power of goalless pleasure and how removing performance pressure can deepen intimacy with ourselves and our partners. By reframing sex as "a place we go" rather than something we do, we open ourselves to greater presence, curiosity, and authentic connection.

• Questioning when we last experienced pleasure without seeking orgasm
• Examining how performance-based sexual scripts limit our erotic experiences
• Understanding sex as a playground for curiosity and shared discovery
• Releasing the pressure to perform and slowing down to feel sensations fully
• Approaching our partners with fresh curiosity and adventurous mindsets
• Prioritizing connection over achievement for deeper intimacy
• Surrendering to the moment without losing ourselves
• Honoring our body's wisdom and innate desires
• Making pleasure a consistent habit rather than a special occasion
• Noticing how goalless pleasure ripples into other areas of life

Home play invitation: Set aside one hour this week for intentional pleasure with no goal in mind, either solo or with a partner. Notice what thoughts arise when you remove performance pressure, and pay attention to how your relationship with pleasure shifts. Feel free to DM me, comment on this episode, or share your experience on social media tagging @BriannaAndrina.

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