It is no fun to experience complications in pregnancy or birth. New diagnosis. Risks. Emergency c-section. NICU stays. These surprises are scary, shocking, and sometimes lead to self shame. "My body is inadequate... I did something wrong" I thought.  Friends, it quite the opposite. It takes bravery and courage to walk through anything abnormal and to adapt to change. Let's get up, look at our circumstances straight in the eye, and conquer it.  You got this momma. You are very brave and strong.