What if the love you crave feels dangerous to your nervous system?

In this powerful episode of the Healed Love Era™, Paula Lowe, RN, BSN, CPT, unpacks how deep abandonment wounds from childhood shape our adult relationships—causing us to pull away from connection, chase emotionally unavailable partners, or panic when things finally feel safe.

You’ll learn:

What abandonment wounds actually are (it’s deeper than being “left”)

How they trigger overthinking, people-pleasing, or shutdown in love

Why secure love can feel boring—or even terrifying—if you’re not used to it

The first steps to healing so you stop pushing away what you say you want

✨ You’re not broken. You’re just protecting yourself in the only way you’ve known. But now it’s time to choose differently.