Why do you want to keep something the way it is? Because you are afraid of change? Change might make you ineffective or irrelevant.  I’m not sure we are aware of that, but I think fear is one core issue for a lot fo what is going on. Change may prove that you are wrong. Change my prove that you are right. Change may mean that you have to learn more or be more or do more than you're doing right now. Are you afraid of change? And why?