Delanie Fischer is joined by Amber Rae, author of Loveable, to unpack what it was like to fall in love—while married to somebody else. She shares her feelings, and logistics, around leaving a marriage that felt like a friendship, the days leading up to the decision (including the moment she knew it was time to go), transforming internalized shame, where both she and her ex-husband are now in love and life, and lessons learned—as well as the ones that are a work in progress.

Plus:

+ 3 Game-Changing Tips for Writers and Creatives

+ What Your Anger Might Be Telling You

+ Amber's Favorite Journaling Exercise

Amber's new book, Loveable

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My Parents Kept Their Divorce A Secret For 3 Years with Nishima Gupta

Craving A Healthy Relationship? Understand Your Attachment Style with Thais Gibson

How Being Children of Divorce Has Influenced Our Relationships

How To Un-F*ck Your Relationships

Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix

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