For many of us, holidays can be hard.  From the outside, it seems like everyone is celebrating.  In an effort to not be reminded of hard times and to not ruin other's celebrations, we pull back and isolate ourselves.  Tim's experiences on his birthdays made it hard for him to celebrate.  He shares the painful stories that caused him to pull back from the people wanting to celebrate him and how he overcomes his pain to join his loved ones in celebrating his life.