What does it take to completely rewrite your story—no matter your age, your past, or the obstacles stacked before you? In this moving episode of Stuck In My Mind, host Wize El Jefe welcomes Zulma Williams, a licensed therapist, trauma specialist, and founder of Dragonfly Therapy Services. Zulma’s journey is anything but ordinary: from a close-knit upbringing in Buenos Aires, Argentina, to surviving cancer, toxic relationships, and cultural upheaval, she’s a living embodiment of resilience and reinvention.
Hear Zulma recount her early life shaped by strong family bonds and the instability of Argentina’s economy, leading her to embark on a bold transcontinental move to the United States at the age of 31. She describes the shock, the magic, and the reality of starting over in a new culture where language and customs were unfamiliar. Despite the hardships, Zulma found spark and adventure, challenging herself to adapt and grow.
At 42, while working in accounting, Zulma took an inspiring leap into the world of mental health. She shares how listening to people’s stories—and surviving her own emotional abuse—ignited her passion to help others heal. Zulma’s candid account of confronting a late-in-life breast cancer diagnosis (just after graduating with her bachelor’s degree), and navigating the expectations of her Hispanic upbringing, offers a raw look at battling both illness and cultural barriers.
The conversation dives deep into the challenges of setting boundaries, especially as an immigrant and a Latina woman, and the importance of honoring your own voice—even when tradition says otherwise. Zulma reveals how her experiences and age have become assets in her work, enabling her to connect with clients on a meaningful, transformative level. She explains the unique approach at Dragonfly Therapy Services, including her use of Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) for trauma, and what the dragonfly symbolizes: deep change, growth, and letting the light in.
As the episode unfolds, Zulma and Wize explore the myths of “too late” and the power of saying “Why not?” to dreams at any stage of life. Listeners will find motivation in stories about pivoting careers, starting over, and how the fears of success can be as real and paralyzing as the fears of failure. Zulma’s vibrant storytelling, sprinkled with humor and authenticity, reconfirms that “stuck” is just a mindset—not a life sentence.
Whether you’re navigating adversity, considering a bold life change, or simply looking for inspiration, this episode is full of practical wisdom, hope, and a reminder that our scars can become powerful sources of service and healing. Tune in to be uplifted, challenged, and reminded that if you’re alive—your mission isn’t done yet.
Connect with Zulma Williams:Instagram: @theswearingtherapistWebsite: Dragonfly Therapy ServicesPodcast: Keeping It Real with Zulma the Swearing Therapist
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