Ever wondered how someone moves from curious submissive to leading their own household?

In this special part 1 episode, Spot shares his journey through the Master/slave lifestyle — from his first online dynamic and becoming an owned slave to founding the House of Spot as a Dominant. You’ll hear how he balanced love and long-term commitment, vetted potential partners, and embraced abundance, energy, and intentionality to create a unique dynamic that genuinely works.

We discuss how intentionality, abundance, and honest connection have shaped his M/S journey. And how he balanced love, vetting, and growth to create a dynamic uniquely his own.

You’ll hear how Spot balanced long-term love with a fiancé, the practical realities of vetting and negotiating with potential Dominants, and how intentionality and “speaking the same language and accent” became the foundation for every step forward. 

Whether you’re exploring M/s for the first time or looking to evolve your existing dynamic, Spot’s story offers a grounded look at real-life power exchange and what it takes to grow with courage and clarity.

What’s inside:– How Spot started with online submission and transitioned to in-person ownership– The importance of vetting, values alignment, and intentionality in M/s– Lessons on energy, abundance, and building a household from scratch

Part 2 coming next month – subscribe so you don’t miss out.

Spot’s Links

- https://www.recon.com/spot 

- https://www.instagram.com/house_of_spot/- https://bsky.app/profile/house-of-spot.bsky.social

Free Guide: Build the M/s relationship you didn’t think was possible — and learn how to make it last. Download my free guide to real lasting M/s dynamics → MasterSlaveLifestyle.com/guide

About the podcast: The Master/slave Lifestyle Podcast reveals the lives, stories, challenges, and growth of people embracing power exchange and living the Master/slave lifestyle. Downloaded over 100,000 times worldwide.

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