In this episode of the Torchbearer podcast, it's a pleasure to welcome men's divorce coach Derek Ketelsen to the studio. We explore themes of personal identity, spirituality, and the complexities of faith. Derek shares his journey from a structured military background to a more fluid understanding of spirituality and personal growth. The conversation delves into the importance of ceremony and ritual in modern society, the challenges men face post-divorce, and the transformative power of self-discovery. In particular the significance of unraveling conditioning and embracing one's true self. Derek also discusses the importance of taking responsibility for one's emotions, particularly in the context of divorce. He emphasizes the need for supportive communities, such as his Pathfinder initiative for men in the military. The discussion also covers the significance of pre-divorce work, effective communication in relationships, and the rites of passage for fatherhood. Derek shares his personal journey of self-discovery and the challenges he faced in building a coaching business, highlighting the role of authenticity and the importance of offering genuine support to clients.

Takeaways and highlights

• Faith can be a complex journey influenced by upbringing and personal experiences.
• Derek's military background shaped his leadership skills and discipline.
• Ceremony and ritual are essential for marking transitions in life.
• The Hero's Journey framework can guide personal transformation.
• Men often struggle with identity and emotions post-divorce.
• Creating supportive communities can help men navigate divorce.
• Pre-divorce work is essential for relationship health.
• Effective communication is key to successful relationships.
• Rites of passage are important for boys becoming men.
• Self-discovery is a continuous journey.
• Building a coaching business requires understanding marketing and authenticity.
• Authenticity in coaching leads to better client relationships.

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