Everything the client is saying about somebody else, they’re saying it about themselves as well. They’re revealing something important about themselves, but with the focus on somebody else. It’s fascinating, and I don’t think it’s an exaggeration that for all the years I’ve been doing this work, whenever a person has come into my office after I’ve seen someone in the family describe them, they have never fit the description that I have conjured up in my mind from those descriptions that were told to me. - Dr. David Freeman